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Writer's Block: GIP (Gratuitous Icon Post)

You finally have an excuse to use it—what userpic do you not get to use very often but can't delete because it's just that awesome?
This one.  I just never have the chance to be bad!!!!!!!! =(

Writer's Block: First Things First

Who (or what) do you consider to be your first love?
Funny how that changes over the years.   Years ago, I would had said my first husband Tim.   I was 16 and knew EVERYTHING (see: DUMB AND STUPID).   Dated a man that was 27 years old.   We dated, got married, took less then a week to see it was a mistake and four years to get away from him.  

He was physically and mentally abusive.  His fave thing was to grab me by my throat, shove me against the wall and lift me up enough where my feet would not touch the ground.   By the time I was 19, I remember him saying "You've changed!  You are not the same girl I married!!!"  Of course I was not.   I was growing up.  

I'm very glad I am away from him, but he did teach me a lot.  Give anyone younger growing room.  Don't put your hand on them to keep them at a certain level that you think they should be.   He wanted me to stay 16, no way I could.  I"m not even the same at 34 as I was at 32.  

Grow, learn, live and love.  Going through those 4 years of hell was actually worth that lesson.  But I wish no one else would have to learn a lesson in that fashion.   

Now when I'm asked that question, sometimes I nearly pop out "Tim".  Just because he was my husband and it's expected.   But I do catch myself.   I'm still learning about love, that was no where near it.

What would your best friend say makes you great? What about your parents or siblings?
I think she would say that I am a great listener.   I've been always been able to listen to anyone, about anything.   People are interesting to me and I enjoy learning about them.  

As for my parents and siblings? HAHAHAHAHAHA  No clue. O_o


Dear Santa...

Dear Santa,

This year I've been busy!

Last month 3339666 and I robbed a bank (-50 points). In August I caught a purse-snatcher who stole mommeeof9's purse (30 points). In September on a flight to Colorado Springs, I stole the emergency flight information card (-40 points). Last Wednesday I gave psychomom1974 a Dutch Oven (-10 points). In November I helped looselips67 hide a body (-173 points).

Overall, I've been naughty (-243 points). For Christmas I deserve a spanking!


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Anyone watching the Macy's Parade? Rick rolled us all. Did you see him smile the whole time?

Stolen from a few

Is your cat plotting to kill you?

I figured it would be a high percentage. =(



Behold... My Future
  I will marry Dale Jr.  
  After a wild honeymoon, We will settle down in NC in our fabulous Apartment.  
  We will have 3 kid(s) together.  
  Our family will zoom around in a orange Monte Carlo.
  I will spend my days as a car owner, and live happily ever after.  
whats your future



Which Nascar driver you will marry by soccer4lyfe92
Marriage DateJanuary 27, 2013
Number of Kids you will have4